Find confidence in intimacy

I work with individuals and small groups to explore intimacy, sex, and relationships. Sessions may be online or in person.

Coaching topics include:

• How to find what you’re looking for – hookups, dates, or something more? Navigating apps, venues, and other social spaces for flirting and fun.
• Preparing for sexual encounters with confidence – body preparation, sexual health & safety, and understanding consent.
• Exploring different types of relationships – which is right for you? How to manage open relationships, monogamy, polyamory and more.
• Queer intimacy – living your authentic self while managing stigma, social/family pressure, and discrimination.
• Exploring sex and intimacy – experimenting with kinks and fantasies. Find new ways to have fun and connect safely with others without being overwhelmed or intimidated.
• Individual needs – I can help with enjoying sober sex, sex and ageing, sex and disabilities (for clients who sign I have BSL Level 2) and more.

Please note: in cases where therapeutic needs are identified beyond the scope of coaching (this may include trauma, depression, addiction, severe body dysmorphia, domestic violence, medical concerns etc.), I can assist with referral to qualified professionals.

Working with writers, directors, choreographers, and performers to achieve creative moments of intimacy in a safe, inspiring environment.

Consultation will provide:

• Safeguarding – ensuring safety and respect for all involved in intimate scenes. Managing consent, discussing limits, anticipating risks and opportunities, and ensuring adequate aftercare.
• Inspiration – creating impactful intimate scenes while respecting the broader artistic vision and tone of the work. I can provide script writing/review, choreography, intimate direction, and sensitivity reading.
• Preparation and pragmatics – helping realise intimate scenes through mindful preparation. Managing performance anxieties and physical performance issues. Anticipating and managing material and comfort needs for performers.

I work with models, actors and in-person sex workers to navigate the practical- and intimacy-related demands of sex work.

Peer support topics include:

• Is sex work right for you? Exploring the consequences and considerations of being a sex worker before starting work. How to prepare for and begin working.
• Sex work health and safety. Managing consent, identifying red flags, preparation, and precautions. Information about testing and treatment for STIs.
  Please note, while I can provide information about financial and legal responsibilities involved in sex work generally, I cannot offer specific financial or legal advice to individuals.
• Navigating social stigma, prejudice, and discrimination. The ups and downs of maintaining a public persona as a performer.
• Intimacy at work – fulfilling obligations and expectations while maintaining motivation and avoiding burnout.
• Managing technology – building sustainable habits and practices to maintain agency (and stay sane) while using social media, websites, and apps to reach clients and deliver content.

Please note: in cases where therapeutic needs are identified beyond the scope of coaching (this may include trauma, depression, addiction, severe body dysmorphia, domestic violence, medical concerns etc.), I can assist with referral to qualified professionals